tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4714398462016533571.post1931672581467625976..comments2023-12-08T05:01:22.204-05:00Comments on Puffer and the Baby Fish: Due DatePufferfishhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03534200400439443949noreply@blogger.comBlogger25125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4714398462016533571.post-91988720307070164702009-05-05T13:01:00.000-04:002009-05-05T13:01:00.000-04:00Thank YOU for sharing your journey with us. I'm gl...Thank YOU for sharing your journey with us. I'm glad you posted this, and I hope your blog has a totally different focus come next April 30th.Khttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10660985580732553593noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4714398462016533571.post-31166890796241644012009-05-04T16:34:00.000-04:002009-05-04T16:34:00.000-04:00I'm so sorry for your loss, and the pain that come...I'm so sorry for your loss, and the pain that comes when you dwell on what might have been. It's amazing how much power a date can have over us. I hope that by this time next year, you're so distracted with a newborn that you barely notice when it rolls around.Gayby Rabieshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01779637237846558012noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4714398462016533571.post-25894103847167265482009-05-02T22:41:00.000-04:002009-05-02T22:41:00.000-04:00I know, even though I am so excited about DE, I st...I know, even though I am so excited about DE, I still mourn a genetic connection to my (hopefully) future child. I just wish I knew why I got POF at 28! It's very frustrating to just not know. Anyway, good luck to you, I'm pulling for you and I can't wait to see you cycle and get pregnant!!!!Bellahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09991924801382270103noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4714398462016533571.post-64305882121458065232009-05-02T17:06:00.000-04:002009-05-02T17:06:00.000-04:00Exactly what you said. :(Exactly what you said. :(Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4714398462016533571.post-48858946861860201522009-05-02T10:26:00.000-04:002009-05-02T10:26:00.000-04:00Sorry sweetie. I wish this had been easier. We als...Sorry sweetie. I wish this had been easier. We also started this process all natural and with high hopes. We didn't even want clomid. Most of us start with optimism and hope. Now I am holding the optimism and hope that this new plan is what is going to bring stinky diapers to your house.Next in Linehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09161821079608326520noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4714398462016533571.post-54420288815429571682009-05-02T10:14:00.000-04:002009-05-02T10:14:00.000-04:00Even though our stories are not identical, I can r...Even though our stories are not identical, I can relate to what you are going through . I'm here for you. xoEvahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08274323857430675083noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4714398462016533571.post-63397091644110891272009-05-02T07:44:00.000-04:002009-05-02T07:44:00.000-04:00Hard day...reading this got me so choked up and at...Hard day...reading this got me so choked up and at the same time upset me...for you, and all the other ttc'ers that are in this position. angry that money has to be such a big part of it....feeling the unfairness of this all. i'm sending you love today. so sorry this day didn't turn out like you wanted it to. next year, it will be a much happier day. i'm sure of it.<br />much love.<br />xotiffhttp://chroniclesofconception.wordpress.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4714398462016533571.post-19856421918435263202009-05-01T17:23:00.000-04:002009-05-01T17:23:00.000-04:00You're right. It's like we share a collective ttc ...You're right. It's like we share a collective ttc brain. I'm so sorry for August, for today and all the day between. It fucking sucks. Sometimes I think the swearing is the only thing that truly expresses how craptastic ttcing can be. Big love, doll.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4714398462016533571.post-45506111954527914742009-05-01T12:14:00.000-04:002009-05-01T12:14:00.000-04:00Ugh. The what might have beens are total killers a...Ugh. The what might have beens are total killers aren't they? As if this whole journey isn't hard enough.<br /><br />I'm so sorry that this April 30th isn't what we all hoped it would be for you. And here is hoping that next April 30th you will be too busy.Heidihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01255761377110288320noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4714398462016533571.post-89901553158043758142009-05-01T10:47:00.000-04:002009-05-01T10:47:00.000-04:00Oh D - I am glad you posted about this day. I wa...Oh D - I am glad you posted about this day. I was thinking the other day while reading your blog that your due date must be coming up and I wondered how you were feeling about it. I can't imagine your sadness really and don't want to pretend I could. Please just know that I have been thinking about you and I don't think you have made any wrong decisions. Life is funny with how it works out, and what you wish in retrospect. You have had so much optimism and strength in this process and I (like many others) have great respect for you because of that. I add my deepest hopes that 4/30/09 flys by because you are so busy debating wither to continue with cloth diapers and figuring out what is the best way to put your baby to sleep. Sending you tons of love, L.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4714398462016533571.post-79510075943754992892009-05-01T10:16:00.000-04:002009-05-01T10:16:00.000-04:00Hey, Eileen here (of the donated Gonal F in Januar...Hey, Eileen here (of the donated Gonal F in January). Your post resonated with me so much since my due date was August 9 and I started my DE cycle on April 8. Transfer is tomorrow. Anyway, hope this cycle goes well for you guys. I'll be following it....Eileennoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4714398462016533571.post-54463739719171516382009-05-01T09:18:00.000-04:002009-05-01T09:18:00.000-04:00sending you much love and many cyber ((hugs)). i a...sending you much love and many cyber ((hugs)). i am so hoping for you that by next april 30th you have your baby in your arms.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4714398462016533571.post-50662537751921706442009-04-30T20:25:00.000-04:002009-04-30T20:25:00.000-04:00Thinking of you. Thank you for sharing this with u...Thinking of you. Thank you for sharing this with us.Sarahhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09489335840714803977noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4714398462016533571.post-44485890521694423022009-04-30T20:22:00.000-04:002009-04-30T20:22:00.000-04:00Sitting with you today. Amid the pain. And the lo...Sitting with you today. Amid the pain. And the loss. And the what ifs. And the second guessing. <br /><br />Puffer--you have made all the right choices and the rest is up to the universe. We love you. <br /><br />hugstbeanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06845011825238450567noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4714398462016533571.post-75654893466572509112009-04-30T19:38:00.000-04:002009-04-30T19:38:00.000-04:00Let's agree to stop swearing so much and maybe it ...Let's agree to stop swearing so much and maybe it will happen for both of us. <br /><br />The BFP never came knocking on my door so I can only imagine what heartache and pain the due date brings. <br /><br />This time next year, for sure, you'll wish your future self could have comforted you through this tough time. It will happen. Much love to you both today.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4714398462016533571.post-47597846741838471742009-04-30T18:45:00.000-04:002009-04-30T18:45:00.000-04:00All I can say is that I have the same hope for you...All I can say is that I have the same hope for you for next April 30th. {{{}}}Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4714398462016533571.post-59392557409476419112009-04-30T18:44:00.000-04:002009-04-30T18:44:00.000-04:00Oh, I get your message now - I'm sorry I didn't th...Oh, I get your message now - I'm sorry I didn't think of what that meant and I hope I didn't offend you. I'm sorry this due date is here without a pregnancy. It's not foolish to try naturally and to have faith in your body - that's something I've always admired about you, your hope and confidence. I know what you mean about losing sight of the end goal and forgetting that we're trying for a baby. Sometimes it feels like we're all professional TTCers. I hope April 30, 2010 is filled with the joy of a warm, sweet new life in your arms.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4714398462016533571.post-46282496859139339842009-04-30T18:42:00.000-04:002009-04-30T18:42:00.000-04:00Thanks for sharing this important anniversary with...Thanks for sharing this important anniversary with the blogosphere. My heart aches for you and that wonderful summer day that you describe where everything was lining up and you had everything you wanted. <br />I have never been pregnant but I know what it like to know that I will never be able to use my eggs to get pregnant.<br />You struck a chord with me and I felt a moment of recognition as I sit here looking at egg donor profiles and wondering which one will match best with the donor sperm that is sitting at the clinic.<br />Take care, take the time to mourn - it's important when we are on this drug/ ttc / donor / money treadmill. Big hugs:)tireegal68https://www.blogger.com/profile/13943003575298698264noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4714398462016533571.post-53808713181800063212009-04-30T17:46:00.000-04:002009-04-30T17:46:00.000-04:00I'm so sorry for this due date that isn't. And I'm...I'm so sorry for this due date that isn't. And I'm so sorry for the cycles of recrimination we put ourselves though. Love you. Thinking of you. Sending love.Lizziehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18142542414035866385noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4714398462016533571.post-31439436206493515372009-04-30T16:52:00.000-04:002009-04-30T16:52:00.000-04:00I'm thinking about you today. I get why an annive...I'm thinking about you today. I get why an anniversary like this is especially bittersweet, knowing that you've closed the door with your own eggs. I'm proud of you for bravely going forward with your next plan (and a very good one at that) while still acknowledging that it hurts.<br /><br />I'll join you in hoping that next April 30 is a day you mark with your baby.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4714398462016533571.post-84971760111686261832009-04-30T16:51:00.000-04:002009-04-30T16:51:00.000-04:00I'm so sorry D. I offer you hugs. Many many intern...I'm so sorry D. I offer you hugs. Many many internet hugs. Can you feel the warm cyber embrace?Jackiehttp://www.waitingformavis.wordpress.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4714398462016533571.post-56402550120904978872009-04-30T16:49:00.000-04:002009-04-30T16:49:00.000-04:00I am crying now in solidarity. I know these feelin...I am crying now in solidarity. I know these feelings. I live these feelings. We have all mostly gotten good at holding onto the fragmented pieces of our dreams and constantly moving forward... don't think, just keep walking. Sometimes, I think it is good to stop and grieve a bit. This process sucks after a few months and the scars run deep. So happy un-birthday to your bio baby that almost was. I hope that next year you are so filled with joy that this day passes in a pleasant, exhausted blur as you love your child to pieces.cindyhoo2https://www.blogger.com/profile/00270674009271182588noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4714398462016533571.post-52367127444771107652009-04-30T16:46:00.000-04:002009-04-30T16:46:00.000-04:00Of course you believed you could get pregnant natu...Of course you believed you could get pregnant naturally at age 39--that's all we ever see on the cover of People and on E TV. All those celebrities, still gorgeous and fresh looking into their late 30s and early 40s, popping out little ones like it's as easy as walking the red carpet. And no one ever mentioning fertility drugs or IVF--not even when the twins appear! It's yet another false, damaging message from Hollywood about what our bodies, as women, should be capable of.<br /><br />So you may not be pregnant with your own little baby, but you'll have a little munchkin soon who will still be yours. And let's not lose sight of the fact that you look just as hot and young as Jennifer Aniston at age 40 WITHOUT having spent hundreds of thousands of dollars on it!<br /><br />- Fab CAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4714398462016533571.post-50277806776754222802009-04-30T16:41:00.000-04:002009-04-30T16:41:00.000-04:00Oh dear, I am so very sorry today is so painful. B...Oh dear, I am so very sorry today is so painful. But, why shouldn't it be? This is all very natural and grieving is a part of the process. TTC is a mind fuck and I am so sorry your journey is painful and sucky. **hugs**Jenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00835693578901841251noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4714398462016533571.post-31417055146680101742009-04-30T16:40:00.000-04:002009-04-30T16:40:00.000-04:00Thinking of you today, and all the couldabeens.Thinking of you today, and all the couldabeens.Nhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17157239516168591352noreply@blogger.com