Friday, May 7, 2010

I Haven't Really Left You

I feel bad that I don't comment very much. It's just so hard.
I can read all of the blogs from my iPhone, but it's much harder to type out all of the comments and everything I'd like to say.

It's difficult enough to just keep blogging but I'm trying.
My laptop goes days without being opened and so I haven't updated my blogroll, put bfp's in the appropriate category, listed all the blogs I'm reading (because I read so many more than what are listed).

I'm beginning to find a few more moments of free time, life IS getting easier. But, whew.
Life with twins is hard, y'all.

I remember reading on someones blog that is was so unhelpful to hear how hard it was going to be or that they didn't know what they are getting themselves into.
And that's not helpful, but my god is it true.
It's the physical sleep deprivation more than anything else that you just cannot expalin to people who have not experienced it.
And even if you have 2 kids close in is still not like having twins.
They are simply in their own category and the only ones who truly get it are other twin moms.

Thanks for those of you who continue to read along. I'm still reading along, too, and someday I hope to be an active commenter again.

- Posted using BlogPress from my iPhone


Ruby at Breathedragon said...

Oh Puffer. I'm impressed that you blog at ALL. I've had some twins envy here and there, but boy oh boy does it sound like the hardest job you'll ever have. As someone who really values her sleep I'm already worried about what kind of monster I'm going to become with ONE baby! I think you're doing great.

K J and the kids said...

I have decided that it is my job to make a poster and picket the fertility clinic yelling, "transfer one, transfer one, transfer one"
As much as I LOVE LOVE LOVE my babies...and I wouldn't change a thing now. I would like to help others with their decision :)

Next in Line said...

Puffer I am just in awe of everything you are doing with those two little guys. You are a rock star and rock stars get to let some things go.

Carrie said...

I think about you every day, seriously, and wonder how you're doing it! Life with one is tough enough. Originally I was pregnant with two (lost one around 8 weeks), and the other night B and I looked at each other and said..."Wow, I can't believe we almost had two. Could we have managed it??" I'm sure we would have found a way, of course, but it wouldn't be easy. I salute all you mothers of twins - you are truly strong!

cindyhoo2 said...

Lol. You are doing great. I would love to hear your comments again but sometimes I even have trouble getting to the place where I can comment. I think we are all just glad that you still post.

I think you were referring to my comment about not knowing what we are in for, etc. :) I think you get a pass and may say that as you are currently living the experience of twins.