- The training course yesterday was challenging to say the least.
- I had to learn a 2-week course of HTML in 7 hours.
- There were only 3 of us in the class and the other 2 had taken an HTML class before.
- I am not a techie at ALL.
- Right about 1pm I thought I might burst into tears from frustration.
- I did not.
- I don't do well with being in last place.
- I'm still exhausted.
- It's sporadically in my CM and when I use the loo since Day 19.
- I ovulated on Day 17.
- There's no way I could be starting my period.
- It's now Day 21.
- Internet says "mid-cycle spotting is normal".
- Not normal for me.
- Acupuncturist gave me herbs to warm my qi.
- I'm running cold these days (and my temps prove it).
- Let me say it one more time: It was a good month to take a break.
- Not us.
- Thanks for all of your comments--they sent me to reality check land.
- We will continue to visit relatives for the free sun and sand.
- I am trying to embrace the freezing--whoops, brisk!--wind on my walk to work and back.
- I like lesbians--obviously--I married one.
- I have a great group of lesbian friends and I really like hanging out with them.
- But not at bars.
- I don't put myself in a box that says "lesbian" on the label because that's not 'who' I am.
- Lesbian bars make me very boxed in and uncomfortable.
- NYC bar flies seem to be like the popular clique in HS. They all look the same and act the same and have the same haircut.
- Over it.
- Glad to hear others don't "get it" either!
Well, that turned into a long post after all.
5 comments:
some days bullets are just the way to go!
- training day sounds like a bear
- red where/when it doesn't belong is startling
- glad you aren't heading south, and it *is* the south!
- never liked 'em (bars) love the gals, so long as they leave the boxes and game playing at the curb
I'm not in NYC, but man, I don't get it, either. I've been over it for years. Oy.
Hope you get some rest soon!
Good--stay out of Florida! (At least for permanent residence)
I hate bars--lesbian or otherwise. And I'm not really a Lesbian with a capital L either... That label/identity really doesn't work for me.
(but I still heart my wife) :)
i feel very similar to you - i often feel very uncomfortable at lesbian bars. when im there, it feels like im accepting that being gay completely defines who i am - and where i can hang out. as though us gays need our separate drinking fountains. i usually end up going to straight bars. i dont even frequent the castro in general, either. having said that, sometimes it's nice to be somewhere with "no fear" - of being judged badly or even worse, be attacked. we're still too nervous to hold hands in public, even though we live in the SF Bay Area. i have just seen/heard too much anti-gay attack stories to feel comfortable. sucks!
Glad you girls are staying put in the north, we can suck up the cold winters together ;) Now, where can one get a bunny ski hat and a muggers mask?
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